Frequently asked questions:
Who can come to the club?
You must be 21 years or older to enter and a Couple or single female.
How do you get invited to your club?
You do not need an invitation. You will have to complete a membership application online. You will receive an email within 1-5 days of receipt of your membership application to confirm membership.
Do I have to become a member?
Yes. Erotica is a private members only club.
How do I get a membership?
You have to apply for a membership online. You must have a valid Driver’s License or state issued ID. After the application is completed, it will be reviewed by a member of our staff. Upon review by our staff we will provide you with acceptance or denial of membership via email. The entire process takes only a few minutes. The first time you come to the club, we will verify your information and then you are welcome to enter our facility. We do not sell or disclose any of your information provided on the membership application. This information is for security of our members and is used only in that manner. Background checks may be conducted for the safety of our members.
What shall I wear?
Most people prefer to dress casual, but nice. Shorts and blue jeans are fine. T-Shirts are okay. Tennis shoes are acceptable, if laced up. Dressing sexy is always encouraged. If you dress risqué, please wear a cover-up to enter and leave the premises. We do have a free coat check area. We have themes every weekend. You are not required to dress for the theme. Feel free to bring a bag with more “comfortable” attire if you would like.
Are women safe in these clubs?
Yes. Disrespecting other patrons will NOT be tolerated on any level. In fact, this club is safer than any "regular" club on any night. Remember, NO means NO. If someone can't understand that, please contact one of the staff immediately and it will be taken care of. You may also call the club when you arrive, to have a staff member escort you into the club. Departure escort to your vehicle is also available.
What kind of drinks do you have?
We are BYOB. Bring your bottle of liquor, beer or wine and we will take care of the rest. We have Coke, Diet Coke, 7-up, Sprite-Zero, cranberry juice, pineapple juice, orange juice and bottled water; the cost is included in your door donation. If you want other mixers, feel free to bring them. We have coolers for your beer or you may choose to bring a small ice chest. All ice and cups are provided.
How much does it cost?
We have no annual membership fee.
Door donation of $40.00 per couple and $5.00 for single females.
The nightly minimum door donations may be subject to change for special events.
Hours of operation:
We are open on Saturday from 8 PM - 4 AM and the last two Fridays of every month from 8 PM - 2 AM for Fetish Friday.
No entry will be allowed after 12:00 AM.
Everyone changes their rules over the years as they grow and learn more about the lifestyle and about themselves as a couple and as individuals. Here are some guidelines that you might like to use as a starting place for your first venture into swinging. Modify them to what gives you the most pleasure.
1) Soft Swing Only. This means not penetrating anyone, except your mate on your first swing experience so that you can discuss things after you leave the party or other couple to see how you feel about your new experiences.
2) Never separate. Stay together and always stay within an arms length of each other your first night, at the club or after you leave, if you go on to a party.
3) Either person of the couple has absolute, unquestionable, VETO power if they do not feel comfortable with or attracted to any one person or the other couple(s).
4) Do not settle for the sake of your partner. For example, if you are attracted to someone's wife, but your wife does not find her husband attractive, then don't expect your wife to "socialize" with him just so you can "socialize" with his wife.
It is important to remember that these are only guidelines to help you get started. Customize them and modify them to suit you and/or your partner to make you both happy and to get the most enjoyment and pleasure from this lifestyle. Everyone has their own boundaries and guidelines that work for them. These rules do not have to be yours... They may not work for you and you might want to have much more conservative guidelines to start with.
One of the most valuable lessons you will learn, is to respect everyone's individual choices in the lifestyle and to not be critical. It all comes down to you and your mate..... No one else matters.
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